SELF IMPROVEMENT AND MOTIVATION

Let love and joy and goodness get through to you. Let all the rest fall gently away. Take whatever the world offers and direct it toward what matters. Be strong, inside, where strength makes all the difference. You don’t have to be drawn into the negativity of the moment. You can choose to live at a higher level, not arrogantly but gratefully and lovingly. You can choose purpose over pettiness any hour, every hour of the day. What gets inside and stays inside and grows, is up to you. Imagine joy, and it is there. Imagine looking at life from a perspective of love, and you do. You really can transform difficulty into achievement, anxiety into peace, conflict into cooperation. Decide to nurture and use the strength inside, and make it so. How to build a strong inner self:- Confidence - comes from knowledge, experience and informations. Attitude - Having the right attitude is so important in anything you do. Action - Speaks from all you learn to attain the res...

What if someone offered you ten million dollars, and the only condition was that you had to explain in advance what you would do with it? Would you take that offer, and would you be able to come up with something meaningful to do with it? Life each day offers you an opportunity that is worth far more than any amount of money. Yet you often fail to seize most of that opportunity because you just can’t commit on which way to go. It’s not because you don’t know. It’s because you don’t allow yourself to believe that you can move in the direction you truly want to move. Yes, you do know what you expect from life when you expect life to be the best it can be. In everything you like and dislike, in every opinion, in every frustration, in every joy, you know. So admit that you know, admit what you desire, let it inform your actions, and let it put the energy of passion into all you do. Love all that you love, with all that you are, and enjoy being who you really want to be. ...

Don’t expect a free ride. Do the work to create a great ride. If you insist on a Free Ride take the RAPID PINK BUS in Kuala Lumpur Malaysia. Don’t wish for a life free of effort. Embrace your ability to put forth effort, and arrange your life so that all your efforts are highly fulfilling. Remember Rome was never built in a day and then today it is a magnificent masterpiece.  Can an apple tree give you fruits the day after it was planted? So effort is required, care, appreciate, provide for and guide it. As enticing as it might seem, you will not find any real joy in running away from your responsibilities. Choose instead to celebrate those responsibilities, and to experience the value that comes from honoring and supporting them. Your life is a grand opportunity, and this day is a crucial part of that opportunity. Just like any valuable opportunity, it is highly demanding. So stand tall, and feel the joy of knowing that you are meeting those demands. Work with...

The only way you’ll ever be happy is to be happy with what you have. You can be happy this very instant if you’ll simply be happy with what you have. Being happy with what you have doesn’t prevent you from creating more. In fact, it puts you in a powerful position to add new value to your world and your life. When you’re happy with what you have, you’re deeply in touch with life’s abundance. Within that abundance is every good possibility. Be happy, and thankful, for the way life is. It will open your eyes to the best possibilities for the way life can be. There is great value in whatever you already have. The way to see that value, and to make full use of it, is to be happy with what you have. Life’s richness is yours the moment you allow it. Be happy with what you have, and nothing can stop you from having it all.

Be of good cheer today, no matter what life hands you. Be of good cheer, because it’s a whole lot more effective than the alternative. The situation may be challenging, but you don’t have to let it ruin your enjoyment of the moment. Life may have given you disappointment, but you don’t have to perpetuate that disappointment. The best thing you can do when things go wrong is to think and speak and act as if things will get better. And when you do, more likely than not, things will get better. A negative situation is not made better by a negative attitude. What will actually do some good is to turn the situation on its head by being positive about it. Be of good cheer, and see what a difference it can make. Be of good cheer, and add something positive to every place you go. Be of good cheer, not because you don’t know any better, but because you do. Be of good cheer, and be the difference that turns things around in a positive way.

What is Coaching? Coaching focuses on future possibilities and utilises learning from past experiences. Coaching is more about how things are done, rather than what things are done. It is about unlocking a person's potential and maximising their performance. It is about helping people to discover answers for themselves rather than advising. Coaching works on resolving problems below the level where they occur. For example, beliefs and values drive behaviours and beliefs and values come from our identity. Therefore, working with a problem that manifests itself at the level of behaviour, means the coach working with you at the level of beliefs and values. It is like peeling away the top layers of an onion to discover that the problem lies at the core. Coaching done well is about working at the core, which resolves not only the presenting problem but also problems which at the time are not even manifesting themselves yet. Coaching is about building a relationship which is based...

Hi All, I'm sure you have had experiences with people whom you are trying to coach to answer this with a big "No". Let's take a closer look. How coachable a person is will depend on several factors and these factors can positively influenced by a skilful coach to some degree to create higher levels of openness and receptivity in the coachee. Factors that influence a person's coachability level are: 1.  Perception of intention  - "Is the coach trying to change me to someone he wants me to be or helping me to change to who I want to be?" When coachees feel it is the former, they will resist even though the intention of the coach is good. It is human nature to want autonomy and control over one's life. Help coachees identify effective behaviours and help them see how that can help them achieve their goals. 2. Coachee's technical capability - Coaching works well when the coachee has some degree of competency in their area of work. They s...